Believe it or not it is rather healthy and sane to go into a relationship with a woman believing that she could never cheat on you.
So when it is revealed that she has cheated on you; know that you can take comfort in wondering how she could cheat on you.
After all she already knew directly or indirectly that her cheating on you wasn't something that you would tolerate.
Yet, the truth is if her sleeping with another man or men was something that she knew you would tolerate.
Odds are she wouldn't have stayed in a relationship with you or cheated on you in the first place.
Perhaps, you can take comfort in the fact of knowing that you have enough to offer a woman that she wants to stay with you even if another part of her wants and eventually does end up being with another man.
Her cheating on you is always a reflection on her and has little if anything to do with you other than you putting your trust in her.
This again is perfectly healthy and normal, unless she had given you some strong indicators of her likelihood of cheating on you; before you decided to get into a commitment with her.
However, no matter what the reasons may have been for getting with her before she cheated on you.
After she cheats any decision that you make that includes maintaining a relationship with her is completely on you and makes any challenges that you were to face 100 times harder than they would have been had you broken up with her and moved on once you discovered that she was cheating on you.
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